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Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a "10

By: Vin DiCarlo

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't stop my eyes looking)...

She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.

Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).

I badly wanted to ask her to a senior prom but I chickened out at the last minute.

A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.

I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...

Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.

To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.

First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true "10".

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because every other guy does that.

A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another "level" beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."

Let me clear this up.

You shouldn't treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.

First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for your own sake I'm going to give you a heads up.

There are two types of "10's."

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10's. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn't EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

May sound harsh but I call it like it is.

These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.

Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a "male 10."

When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. And of course you'll have plenty of "adventures" to enjoy with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are lot of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.

Vin

Article Source: http://directoryjam.com

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